6 Easy Ways to Make Friends in College

College at RIT is a fresh start, and making new friends is a big part of it! But let’s be real: talking to strangers in a totally new place can feel a little intimidating. The good news? Everyone else is figuring it out, too. Whether you’re introverted, outgoing, or somewhere in between, here are six easy, low-pressure ways to make real connections on campus.

1. Leave Your Door Open

During your first week in the dorms, try propping your door open when you’re in your room. It sends a casual, welcoming vibe and makes it easier for people walking by to pop in and say hello. You’d be surprised how often a quick “Hey!” turns into a real conversation.

One night, I left my door open while unpacking, and a neighbor popped their head in to say hi. Ten minutes later, we were talking about our favorite music, and we’re still friends now!

2. Participate in Orientation Events

Yes, some of the icebreakers might feel a little tedious, but go anyway! Orientation is designed to help you meet new people, and the best part? Everyone there is just as new as you are. You’ll cross paths with students from your dorm, your major, and even clubs you might end up joining.

Pro Tip: Ask someone near you what they think of the event, it’s a great convo starter.

3. Join a Club

Head to the Student Activities Fair during TigerFest and sign up for a couple of clubs that catch your eye. You don’t have to stick with all of them, this is just a low-stakes way to meet people who share your interests. From gaming to theater to anime and art, there’s something for everyone at RIT!

4. Talk in Class

You don’t have to make a speech, just say hi to the person next to you. Ask if they understood the assignment or what they think of the class so far. It’s an easy way to break the ice.

That simple exchange might lead to:

• A shared walk back to the dorms
• A study session before a big exam
• Someone to grab food with after class

5. Use the Dining Hall Strategically

Spot someone from your floor or class eating alone? Ask if you can sit with them. Most people appreciate the company, and then it can lead to future meals or spontaneous plans!

Pro Tip: “Mind if I join you?” can lead to plans you didn’t expect, like late-night Mario Kart or an impromptu walk around campus.

6. Be Patient With Yourself

Making friends doesn’t always happen overnight, and that’s okay! Everyone’s adjusting and trying to find their people. Just keep showing up, stay open, and remember: a lot of great friendships start with a simple “Hey!” You’ve got this.

Making friends doesn’t have to be complicated; it just takes a little effort and a little patience. RIT is full of people looking for connections, just like you! So take a breath, be yourself, and trust the process. Your people are out there.

Take that first step. Say hi. Sit with someone. Try a club. Your people are out there, and they’re looking for you, too.